Saturday, February 20, 2010

New Stuff

I can't believe I have gone this long without posting. I just don't know where the time goes! Everyone is doing great -- the boys are worn out between karate, play practice, and - oh yeah - school! Josh is having video game withdrawls. Their schedule is wearing us out too...I think I will be glad when this play is over. They are having lots of fun and are enjoying making new friends, but I think they will be glad for a break! The girls are their normal silly selves. They have started this new thing at home where they play "grocery store". Sarah is in the kitchen and Ava comes through with their little grocery cart and Sarah says, "Well hello! Come on in! How are you today?" They are so funny...so dramatic...I am in trouble when the teenage years hit! (How many times have I said that??)

So what did you do for Valentine's Day? Yeah - I know - it has been almost a week, so you might have already forgotten! Personally, I had a great one. Charles and I had a late dinner Friday night at Houston's. Saturday we slept in since the kiddos were gone (that was SOOOOO NIIIIICE!! Seriously! If you are able to sleep past 7:00 on Saturday mornings, consider yourself very fortunate!!), took the boys to play practice, ate lunch at El Porton (what??? 2 meals just the 2 of us? how did THAT happen?), ran errands, picked up all of said children and then headed to our friend's house for a fondu dinner. That was wonderful! She had a chocolate fountain for dessert and Josh discovered carrots weren't so bad when covered in chocolate. I think I will take his word on that one. On Sunday, the kiddos and hubby gave me a wonderful present - 2 heart charms for the Chamilia bracelet they bought me for Christmas. Now I have 3!

We went to church Sunday morning and Pastor spoke about marriage (duh!), but he did bring up one point that I thought was very interesting - and very true. Courtship. He said less marriages would end up in court if there was more courtship in marriage. He said we should have at least 2 ideas of ways we can "court" our spouse over the next 40 days. That is a very good point - especially for those marriages like ours that get so caught up in the logistics of just getting thru the day that you forget to take time to show your spouse why you treasure him/her. Women love the "little things" and the guys like to know they are thought of too (but are less likely to admit it!) There is a marriage blog I follow (you can find it to the left on my side bar), and she also has had some very good points to make (to the wives) about respecting your husband - and lots of other good nuggets! I'm not going to go into it here, but I encourage you to check it out. I've been "gently reminded" of some things that I have forgotten in regards to my relationship with my husband. Yes, our lives are crazy (have I said that already?) After all, we have been married for 13+ years you know! Romance/courtship is so easy when you are dating. That is all you think about, "What can I do to show him how much I love him? To let him know how important he is to me? That I think about him constantly?" Remember those days? You get married, have kids, and then the best you can do is make sure the cap is on the toothpaste. Sometimes I need to just take a step back and look at things (him) from a fresh perspective. I have ordered a book (and for the life of me I can't remember the name...so I will have to get back to you on that!) at the suggestion of my friend Jen's blog, which I am anxious to start reading. It is about nurturing your husband. I will have to keep you updated as to how it goes. It might take me while to get thru it, but I am going to do it!

Anyway -- that is all that is happening in these parts! I am so ready for spring and warm (even hot!) weather, swimming pools, flip flops, capris, t-shirts and shorts (from a laundry perspective!), long days, riding in the car with the windows down, and lots and lots of sunshine. Please feel free to remind me of this in August when it is 150 degress outside and we are sweating in the shower. For now however, I do believe I am starting to see a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. Yesterday's 60 degree weather was enough to give me a taste!! C'mon spring!

1 comment:

all4boys said...

Welcome back, Chicky! I missed you while you were away. I always checked your blog title on my sidebar {it's set to show me the time you posted} and was always disappointed when there wasn't a new one. So, yay for you!!!

Okay. I seriously LOVED this entry. I saw it on facebook and had to come to your "real" blog. I love what y'all did for VDay, and I love what he got you! Aren't we among the blessed as far as hubbies go?! YES!

I saw that blog the other day on your sidebar and I LOVE LOVE LOVE it~I have found another blog from that one you follow that is just as wonderful and have already talked with the girl a couple times. Her name is Courtney and it's Women Living Well. Do you read that one? It's http://womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com/. You should go check it out. I don't know if it's going to link on here, so just copy and paste.

I love what Pastor preached on last week. I need to go back over the notes I took. I loved that statement too, and wrote it down. We do have to practice that~and as hard as it is, we're always so refreshed after it's all over and done with. I love those moments I can get away with Todd. I need to plan something in the next few weeks~we're long overdue!

Am I the Jen you mentioned? Is it that Laura Schlessinger book?! I hope so~you are going to LOVE it. If it's not, then what book is it? Just out of curiosity! I have the audio version of that book, so if you get to the point you can't read it anymore, I'll let you borrow my audio one. I listened to it in 2 nights and took notes on the whole thing. I sat in the floor with a cd player beside me and when she said something I loved, I would pause it. Okay. Well, I really should have just emailed all this, but I love comments on my blog, so here you go!!!

I seriously love you to pieces and let's get a night planned soon okay? Like in the next 2 weeks or so. Just let me know what night is good for you. I'm flexible and can do most nights. :)